Are You Growing Spiritually? Here’s How to Tell – 2

We have been looking at ways to measure our spiritual growth.  Last time we talked about yearning more and more for heaven as a sign we are growing spiritually.  We’ll look at 2 more signs this blog:

2. Are you becoming more loving in how your treat others?

Matthew 22:36-40  “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”  37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’  38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’  40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” 

1 John 4:20-21   If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. 21 And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother. 

Do you find you re becoming kinder to people, more patient and compassionate that you were?  Are you more sensitive to the needs and hurts of others?  Does your heart ache for the trials and difficulties others face?

Do you find you are genuinely interested in others?  That you are more willing to do what you can to help those in need?

As we become more like Jesus we love others as He loves – totally and unconditionally.  That’s how He loves us.  Its only natural that as we grow to become more like Him we find ourselves loving people more like He does.

Are you becoming more loving in how you feel about and how you treat others?  That is another sign that you are growing spiritually.

3. Are you more aware of God’s work in your life?

Philippians 3:10  I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, 11 and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead. 

Galatians 2:20   I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. 

As we grow we will recognize God’s hand in our life more and more.  At first we see the big things He does, but as we grow closer to Him we start noticing that everything that happens is because of Him.

Do you give Him credit for the little things as well as the big things in your life?  Are you more aware that He is in control of all that happens, the difficulties a well as the good things?  Are you less willing to give yourself credit for what you accomplish and quicker to give God credit?

As we grow we become more aware of how much we need God.  He doesn’t need us to do His work, He can get along fine without us.  We could do nothing without Him, though.  If God withheld His grace and help from your life, what would it be like?  What could you accomplish for Him on your own, without His help?

Are you becoming more and more aware of God working in all areas of you life?   That is a sign of spiritual growth.

(If I can answer questions or offer personal counsel, or if you would like a free copy of my Spiritual Warfare Handbook, email me at or download it from  My next book, Spiritual Warfare in the Bible, which is a more advanced treatment of spiritual warfare, is also available there for free.)

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