STEPS TO DELIVERANCE: 8. FORGIVE OTHERS

It is of the utmost importance to make sure that FORGIVENESS OF OTHERS who have hurt them in the past or present, including parents, ex-mates, etc.,  is dealt with at this time.   Ask if there is anyone they hold anything against, anyone they are bitter towards or don’t like to see prosper.  You will sense this as they have answered the previous questions but now forgiveness must take place for deliverance to continue.  Unforgiven gives demons a solid stronghold from which to work (Ephesians 4:26).

As to forgiveness, what is forgiveness?  Forgiveness is not forgetting or letting someone off the hook.  Forgiveness is choosing to not desire revenge, to not want to see the other hurt for the hurt they have caused us.  When we hurt we want to hurt back, or see the other hurt for the hurt that caused us.  This desire for justice is normal but forgiveness means we don’t expect justice, we will take our hurt and deal with it instead of turning it into anger at another.  Remember, anger is a secondary emotion coming from hurt.  To forgive means giving up any right you might have to see the other suffer for what they did to you.  You can’t forget, but whenever the hurt or anger come back, you make that choice again to give up any right to see them suffer.  That’s how God forgives us – He gives up any right to see us pay for our sin against Him.  Therefore when we forgive we are being like Him and when we don’t we aren’t.  If you have trouble forgiving just tell God you are willing but struggling.  As God heals the pain you will better be able to forgive.

PRAYER TO FORGIVE OTHERS

Thank You, Jesus, for dying that I might be forgiven.  By an act of my will I now choose to express the desire of my heart and forgive those who have hurt me.  (name the people)  I release each and every one of these people into the freedom of my forgiveness.  In Jesus’ name.  Amen

Father, I confess that, as a result of being hurt, I have allowed myself to hold anger, resentment and bitterness in my heart against (name).  I acknowledge this as sin, and I now repent and turn from this behavior.  I ask that You will forgive me and cleanse me.  I take back any access this sin has given to any of Satan’s demons.  In Jesus’ name.  Amen

When you feel ready to proceed first EXPLAIN WHAT WILL BE HAPPENING so they know what to expect.  People have all kinds of strange ideas of what ‘exorcism’ is.  While this is not exorcism (demons forced out by a religious ritual) but deliverance (free will consent and taking back of access by the person demonized) many may not know the difference.  Tell them you will pray and take back access the demons have claimed as well as commanding them to be gone.  I explain it like opening a door and allowing someone to enter a room, then realize you shouldn’t have done that.  You need to close the door so no one else enters, but you also need to command those who already have entered to leave.  Confessing the sin and taking back the access closes the door.  Rebuking and commanding them to be gone cleans the room.  Both steps must be taken, in that order.  Remind them there is nothing to fear (Luke 10:17-21) and that fear is one of Satan’s biggest tools against them.  Tell them to be sensitive to anything God is telling them in their mind or heart.  If He brings up sins to confess ask them to interrupt the process so the sin can be dealt with at that time.  If God says it needs to be removed then it must be removed to proceed.

Ask God to show you anyone whom you haven’t forgiven and make sure you forgive them now.

(If I can answer questions or offer personal counsel, or if you would like a free copy of my Spiritual Warfare Handbook, email me at Jerry@ChristianTrainingOrganization.org or download it from http://sw.christiantrainingonline.org/.  My next book, Spiritual Warfare in the Bible, which is a more advanced treatment of spiritual warfare, is also available there for free.)

 

C t O Rev. Dr. JERRY SCHMOYER
Christian Training Organization
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